YOU DESERVE
THIS MOMENT
There comes a time in every man’s life when the noise gets too loud.
The pressure builds.
The clarity fades.
And you know — it’s time to step away from the chaos and come back to yourself.
The Integrated Man Retreat is a 2.5-day outdoor immersion designed for the man who’s ready to recalibrate.
To disconnect from the daily grind and reconnect with purpose, power, and presence.
This isn’t a luxury spa weekend.
This is about getting back to the basics — raw, real, and aligned.
Why We Created This Retreat
We didn’t build this retreat for the man who wants a break.
We built it for the man who’s ready to break through.
We’ve coached CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes, and high-performers from around the world—and the pattern is always the same:
Men who have achieved a lot, but feel disconnected from themselves.
Men who’ve learned to survive in high-pressure environments, but lost touch with their own inner fire.
Men who are strong on the outside, but silently burning out on the inside.
We created The Integrated Man Retreat to change that.
To give men a space where they can strip back the noise, drop the mask, and remember who they truly are—before the world told them who to be.
A space to challenge themselves physically, mentally, and spiritually.
A space to reconnect to their mission, sharpen their edge, and walk away more grounded, clear, and dangerous—in the best possible way.
This isn’t a vacation.
This is a recalibration.
A hard reset.
A return to power, purpose, and presence.
Because the world doesn’t need more men pretending to have it all together.
It needs more men who are integrated–
 Whole. Awake. And fully alive..
Shatter Your Limits. Reconnect with Your Power. Walk Out with Unshakable Clarity.
Morning Priming Sessions
You’ll learn:
Rudi Riekstins’ proven, neuroscience-backed priming routine used by elite performers to command their mindset, elevate their energy, and take control before the world even wakes up.
Forge Your Inner Edge in NatureÂ
Step off the grid and into the wild. Through physical movement, breathwork, and challenge-based outdoor experiences, you’ll reconnect to your instincts, sharpen your focus, and tap into a deeper sense of purpose that can’t be found behind a desk.
Mindset & Identity Work
You can’t lead others until you know who you are.
You'll be guided through sessions to confront limiting beliefs, drop the old programming, and rewire how you think and lead–reclaiming your power and stepping into the man you were born to be.
Physical Empowerment & Tactical Skills
In a safe, structured environment, you’ll train with elite instructors to handle a handgun, sharpen your self-defense instincts, and develop real-world protection skills.
This is about pushing beyond your comfort zone — building confidence, discipline, and the ability to stay calm and in control when it counts.
Nightfall Fires & Brotherhood
End each day with fire — real fire.
Under the stars, shoulder to shoulder with men walking the same path.
No fluff.
Just real talk, powerful insights, and a bond that lasts far beyond the weekend.
This Is Your Invitation...
to enter a space where growth is non-negotiable, power is honored, and passion is reignited. This retreat is a catalyst, created for men ready to lead with depth and direction.
$1997
LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE
General ticket incl. Military Grade Tent/Cot, full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered.
Regular Price: $1997
Secure your spot today!
$2700
FATHER & SON or SHARED EXPERIENCE
Father and Son or Shared Experience (2 people), min age 16yrs. General ticket incl. a single Military Grade Tent and full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and tent with cots.
Regular Price: $3994
*Rooms are available on a first come first serve basis, once a particular room has been book it will be removed from the site
$2994
UPGRADE YOUR EXPERIENCE
The Buck/Safe Private Room
Claim a private room upgrade and a 60-minute personal coaching session with Don Varady or Rudi Riekstins. Includes full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered. One room. One chance. First come, first served.
$2994
UPGRADE YOUR EXPERIENCE
The Farmstead Master Private Room
Claim a private room upgrade and a 60-minute personal coaching session with Don Varady or Rudi Riekstins. Includes full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered. One room. One chance. First come, first served.
$2994
UPGRADE YOUR EXPERIENCE
The Wild Horse Private RoomÂ
Claim a private room upgrade and a 60-minute personal coaching session with Don Varady or Rudi Riekstins. Includes full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered. One room. One chance. First come, first served.
$2994
UPGRADE YOUR EXPERIENCE
The Gem Mine Private Room
Claim a private room upgrade and a 60-minute personal coaching session with Don Varady or Rudi Riekstins. Includes full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered. One room. One chance. First come, first served.
$2994
UPGRADE YOUR EXPERIENCE
The PBR Private RoomÂ
Claim a private room upgrade and a 60-minute personal coaching session with Don Varady or Rudi Riekstins. Includes full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered. One room. One chance. First come, first served.
$2994
UPGRADE YOUR EXPERIENCE
The Emerald Private RoomÂ
Claim a private room upgrade and a 60-minute personal coaching session with Don Varady or Rudi Riekstins. Includes full access to the main event Oct 23–26 at V&V Farms in Wilmington, NC—3 nights of immersive transformation with all meals, activities, and accommodations covered. One room. One chance. First come, first served.
Split Payment Option for Camping:
A split payment option is available below for those selecting the Camping package. If you require a split payment for a different accommodation tier, please contact our team at [email protected] to request a custom payment link for your preferred room.
2 PAYMENTS OF $998.50
LIMITED TICKETS
General ticket incl. Military Grade Tent/Cot.
Regular Price: $1997
Secure your spot today!
Grow Together. Love Deeper. Live Fuller.
We believe that couples who grow individually—mind, body, and spirit—grow stronger together in love and life. That’s why we’ve created two transformational experiences:
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The Men’s Retreat: A powerful space for him to rise in strength, clarity, and purpose.
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The Women’s Retreat: Two weeks later, a curated journey led by Anniston Riekstins and Evonne Varady, designed for her to step fully into her feminine power.
When you join both, you’re investing in not just your personal evolution, but in the growth of your relationship. Bundle both retreats and save, ensuring you return home not only renewed as individuals, but united on a deeper level as partners.
$3994
BUNDLE PACKAGE: HIS AND HERS
Grow together, not apart. When you secure your spot for The Integrated Man (Oct 23–26, 2025), you can add a discounted ticket for your spouse or female partner to attend The Rooted Women’s Retreat (Nov, 6-9, 2025). Two powerful experiences. Two life-changing weekends. One investment in your relationship’s future.
Price: $3994
$5988
BUNDLE PACKAGE: UPGRADED HIS AND HERS
Grow together, not apart. When you secure your spot for The Integrated Man (Oct 23–26, 2025), you can add a discounted ticket for your spouse to attend The Rooted Women’s Retreat (Nov, 6-9, 2025). Two powerful experiences. Incl. a Private Room for both retreats and a 1:1 Session per attendee.
Price: $5988
This isn’t a weekend escape—it’s a reset for the man you’re becoming.
WHEN YOU HEAD HOME, YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH:
- Unshakable Clarity: Know exactly who you are, what you stand for, and where you’re headed—no more second-guessing.
- Reclaimed Fire & Focus: Leave recharged and dialed-in, with renewed purpose and the energy to attack life with precision.
- Mental & Physical Grit: You’ll have pushed your limits—mentally, emotionally, and physically—and come out stronger on every level.
- Real-World Tools: Tactical routines, mindset strategies, and daily practices to stay grounded, clear, and in control, no matter what life throws your way.
- Brotherhood That Has Your Back: You’ll leave with a tribe of men who get it—men who challenge you, support you, and keep you sharp long after the fire goes out.
Transformation That Lasts
This retreat isn’t just about what happens during our time together—it’s about who you become when you leave. You’ll walk away with practical tools, embodied practices, and renewed clarity so you can integrate what you’ve discovered here into your daily life and continue evolving long after the retreat ends.
MEET YOUR HOSTS
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RUDI RIEKSTINS
A Leadership Visionary, Energetic Mastery Coach, and Business Mentor, Rudi works with conscious entrepreneurs, executives, and transformational leaders who are done leading from pressure and ready to operate from power, presence, and purpose.
Known as “the leader leaders call when it’s time to evolve,” Rudi helps his clients break through internal limits, reclaim their inner authority, and elevate their frequency so that life and business start working with them—not against them.
Named a Top 5 Coach by Thrive Global and recognized by LA Weekly as a guiding voice in next-gen leadership, Rudi is also the host of The InPowered Life Podcast, ranked among the Top 20 in self-development.
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DONÂ VARADY
Don is a high-performance mentor, and tactical leadership trainer for men ready to own every area of their lives.
A former body building athlete turned entrepreneur, he brings a powerful blend of grit, discipline, and purpose-driven leadership to everything he does. With decades of experience in building a $100+ Million dollar business he specializes in helping men build real-world confidence—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Don’s no-BS approach strips away the fluff and helps men reconnect to who they are at their core.Â
At The Integrated Man Retreat, Don leads physical empowerment sessions—designed to sharpen instincts, build capability, and anchor a deeper sense of masculine integrity.
"This retreat was one of the best retreats and I've done 100's over the last 20 years." Andy Moeckel.
"The heart and emotional side really showed me that there is room for guys to have these kinds of experiences."
— Steve Bon
"Rudi taught me these action steps that changed my life–I am currently living the life of my dreams."
— Christian Magsino
A GLIMPSE INTO YOURÂ EXPERIENCE
